Becoming Aroused
Satisfying lovemaking takes time, and can never take too long. There are numerous activities for lovers to indulge in that do not involve actual sexual intercourse. On rare occassions, you may be so aroused that you immediately proceed to penetration and an orgasm, but usually a couple enjoys the gradual intimacies that leisurely kissing, undressing, petting, and oral sex, among others, provide.
The variety of techniques that can be used to pleasure each other can be enjoyed as activities in their own right, or as delightful prolouges to sexual intercourse. The longer, more refined, and more attentive the foreplay is, the more receptive you and your body will become, and the better, more magical, and more fulfilling the ultimate pleasure will be.